Refined Casual: Getting your grown man on, outside the office

November 28, 2011 · 77 comments

in Apparel, Giveaways, How To, Tips

Hey gents,

I’m about to drop some knowledge on you in a minute. But first, I want to make sure I have your attention. Make sure to read through this whole article because at the very end, I’ll have a special surprise for you, but you’ll have to read through to find out!

For the uninitiated (read: those who aren’t avid readers of this site) “casual” typically equates to sloppy. Most of the time this isn’t intentional; I highly doubt anyone wakes up in the morning thinking “I’m gonna look my absolute shittiest today.”

The problem is, lots of guys don’t know what to put on when they’re not wearing their work uniforms, whether that be a suit and tie, or an orange vest and a hardhat.

Enter the idea of Refined Casual. There is no one type of casual outfit, just like there is no “going out” shirt, despite what most guys think.

I’m encouraging you to blur the lines a bit between dressy and casual. When you have a more refined casual look, you’ll never find yourself completely under or overdressed in any situation you find yourself in.

What does this mean exactly?

Step away from t-shirts on your off days, and throw on a button-up sport shirt. Try a fitted crewneck sweater instead of your typical hoodie. Put on a great pair of chinos instead of your ripped, faded denim.

What better way to illustrate this point than with visuals? Below are three outfits I put together. Study them not as absolutes you should memorize and mimic exactly, but rather use them as references on how to pair color and texture together, and more importantly, how to willingly stray away from your usual casual choices.

Each of these examples feature Bonobos’ Game Day Chinos, some of my favorite out right now. They have great colors available and the fit is perfect. Definitely worth checking out if you’re in the market for new pants.

Take a look at the Game Day Chinos here (opens in a new tab).

Game Day Chinos in red, Resin tailored shirt from Gap, Half-zip lambswool sweater from J.Crew, Navy Bayswater pea coat from J.Crew, Earthkeeper boots from Timberland, Golden / Brass leather belt from Tanner Goods

Game Day Chinos in Petrol Blue from Bonobos, White all-rounder oxford shirt from Bonobos, Millerain waxed cotton field jacket from J.Crew, Red Oak leather desert boot from Clarks, Heritage tan / black leather belt from Tanner Goods

Game Day Chinos in Surplus from Bonobos, Brushed flannel work shirt from Lands’ End Canvas, Waxed cotton field jacket from Lands’ End Canvas, Suede chukka boot from Quoddy, Mahogany / nickel leather belt from Tanner Goods

Lucky for you, since you’re an EG reader, you can get 20% off with the code “effortlessgent”, just use it at checkout. Not bad, right? Check out the chinos here.

What did you score today?

I’m sure you saw my last article about Bonobos’ ridiculous Cyber Monday sale. Well, that’s going on right now, so make sure you check that out and pick up some great stuff at a crazy amazing discount. In case you’re wondering, nope, the effortlessgent code won’t work on Cyber Monday purchases, but you won’t even need it anyway. The deals will be that awesome.

You’re not too late, go check out the cyber monday specials on bonobos.com now.

Aaaand now, the surprise!

  This contest has already ended. Thanks for entering!   

The good folks at Bonobos knew I loved their Game Day Chinos, and when I told them I was going to feature them in an article, they were gracious enough to throw in a pair for free to one lucky winner.

Nice!

So here’s what you gotta do to win a pair of Game Day Chinos. In the comments below, let’s hear your BEST pick-up line, ever. Make it good! And make it count.

Pretty simple, right? Last day to enter is this Friday, December 2, at 11:59pm Pacific.

I’m looking forward to hearing your best pick-up lines… this should be interesting.

Oh, and if you have any thoughts / questions on “refined casual”, leave em in the comments as well.

Good luck!

About

Barron is the founder and editor of Effortless Gent, a site dedicated to helping dudes figure out what looks best on them. He also co-founded Fifth&Brannan, a menswear label based in San Francisco. Connect with him on Twitter and Facebook.

  • Nick Wills

    I lost my phone number…..can I have yours?

  • JB

    I’m sorry to interrupt, but you are in the wrong place. There’s no beauty contest here!

  • http://www.facebook.com/DaddyMamu Chris Mamula

    Hi, are you part of the 99%?  You sure have been occupying my mind all day.
     

  • Jon

    I drive a Dodge Stratus.

    … works every time. 

  • Michael

    You’re so beautiful, you could be a waitress. You’re so beautiful, you could be an air hostess in the 60′s. You’re so beautiful, you could be a part-time model. And when you’re on the street, depending on the street, you are definitely in the top three good looking women on the street.

  • Jon

    I just have to know if there is more to you than just a pretty face.

  • Shoes_123

    You smell like books and Poland.

  • Jason

    hi, do you like ice cream?

  • Aaron

    “Good, and you?”

    She’ll always answer. 

  • Daniel Leonard

    “Want me to read your palms?” If she says yes, you can make up some things about her lifeline, etc., that get humorously specific over time: “This line says you have a dog named Sergeant Pickles…You don’t? You will.” This process gives you a chance to show your creativity and sense of humor. Crucially, it lets you hold hands with her for a few minutes and draws her attention to the physical contact. If you see that she’s responding well, you can throw in some things toward the end that are “reading between the lines” about how she’s pretty, intelligent, etc. Finally, close with: “Now, would you mind if I write something on them?” Take out a pen and write your number.

  • Jetpackwill

    “I lost my teddy bear, can I sleep with you?”

    alternatively…

    “Wanna get in my car?”

  • Markus

    “For a moment I thought I had died and gone to heaven. Now I see that I am very much alive, and heaven has been brought to me.”

  • James Hartley

    I have never felt the way I felt when I saw you a few
    moments ago.  You are without a doubt the
    most mesmerizing woman I have ever seen and I would love to leave here, buy you
    a cup of coffee, and get to know you.

  • SH

    “Hello” worked for me.

  • Patrick Regan

    “Hi, I’m sorry, but I was sitting over at the end of the bar and I have to tell you that you look amazing.  Mind if I take a seat?”

    As the Most Interesting Man in the World says:  ”There is a time and a place for pick-up lines.  The time is never.  You can figure out the place.”

  • robster

    Look, I may not be the best looking guy at this bar. But I’m the only one talking to you.

  • Pastorbillycrow

    Bible pick up line:  If I walked around you 7 times, would you fall for me?

  • Michael M

    So, are you going to let me take you out to dinner this weekend?

  • Brendan

    Go up to her and say, excuse me miss but you dropped your name tag.(Give her a packet of sugar)

  • Samson

    Whats up?………..from outta town?

  • Joshua

    Do you believe in love at first sight, or should I walk by again?

  • Mario

    Hello I’m (name), What’s your name?

  • Zackdbell

    Do you have any raisins? No? How about a date?

  • Inniscor

    *open phone on your shoulder* “Excuse me, I’ve got God on the phone… he says he wants to know when to expect his most beautiful angel back.”

  • Glen

    My phone is broken, it doesn’t have your number.

  • Emmett

    I lost my teddy bear..can I sleep with you?

  • Stevecasado

    Your father must be a drug dealer, cuz you dope!

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