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Let’s chat about ties.

There’s a good chance, at some point in your life, you’ll have to wear one. Even if you’re that guy who hates wearing them.

In this situation, it could go one of two ways.

You’ve either read this article and did your research, which resulted in you looking fully-prepared and dapper to the extreme… or you look like you swiped a tie off the bum down the street and haphazardly knotted it around your neck.

Even if you don’t wear ties every day, let’s make sure you know what you’re doing, on those rare occasions you must wear one.

Tie width

The traditional width for men’s ties are around 3 1/4″ – 3 1/2″ (8.25cm – 8.9cm) across, at the widest point.

There are plenty of arguments regarding tie width and how today’s ties are too narrow. I personally feel that 3 1/2″ is too wide. I think for a modern man, the sweet spot is anywhere from 2 3/4″ – 3″ (7cm – 7.6cm).

There are plenty of factors that affect this, however. One major factor is the tie’s width compared to to the suit jacket’s lapels. In general, if your lapels are slimmer, your tie should also be slimmer. If your lapels are a bit wider, your tie should be too.

Another factor is your general build. Do you have a slim, small stature? Slimmer men’s ties and lapels will look better on you. If you have a broad shoulders and chest, you want to wear something wider.

Yet another factor is your personal preference. I hardly ever wear that wide tie on the right, but I do rock that Hawaiian floral one. So, sometimes, it just depends on what you like and what makes you feel good.

If you’re concerned about what’s classic versus trendy, I think you’re safe with something around 3″.

Again, take all this with a grain of salt and first evaluate your lapels (and your build) to determine the right width for you.

Tie length

The standard length of men’s ties is around 57″ (144cm). If you’re a taller dude and you find that regular ties are too short when you knot them, you may need extra long ties, which are around 61″ – 63″ (155cm – 160cm).

Knotting the tie

There are a multitude of knots out there; just do a simple Google search and you’ll see what I mean.

My favorites are the Pratt knot (here’s a little guide) and the Four-in-hand (guide here). These knots will work for most, if not all, of your ties.

If you’re so inclined, go ahead and explore the others out there. You might find one you like better.

“Where should my tie end?”

The wide end men’s ties should hit the belt buckle, or right at the waistband. That’s the classic sweet spot. Neil and Peter (from White Collar, above in the photo) got it right.

Personally, I like mine a little shorter, when the tip of the tie hits the middle or the top of the belt. If your ties are narrower, this looks fine. If you’re approaching 3.5″+ tie widths, a shorter length isn’t a good look.

“Are all men’s ties made of the same stuff?”

You’ll find ties made of different materials such as silk, cotton, and wool. Silks can be worn year-round. I like wearing my wool ties in the winter and my lighter cotton ties during the warmer months.

“Which tie do I wear with this shirt?”

This is a tough one, simply because there is no one correct answer for every color combination out there. It depends a lot on the rest of the outfit.

Here are some tips, though.

Think opposites for foolproof pairing. When it comes to patterns, if you’re going with a bold tie, make sure your shirt is plain or very subtly patterned. If you have a patterned shirt (bright gingham, plaid, etc.), stick with a solid or subtly patterned tie.

Create contrast. Study the images above and figure out why these work. Contrast, for one, but also the colors complement each other well.

By the way, complementing colors is often explained using the color wheel, but I know that’s not always the easiest to comprehend so I made this guide instead.

Start with a neutral or light-colored base. If you wear a white or pastel shirt, it’s much easier to pair with practically any tie. If you’re throwing on something like Jerry’s party shirt, I’m not sure I can really help you there.

Further reading from the guys at Put This On – The Most Basic Ties

In conclusion

Clearly we didn’t cover EVERYTHING about men’s ties and neckwear. If you want a full history, Wikipedia can get you started. These are the absolute basics and should get you started on the right foot.

Questions about the basics and necessities of men’s ties? Need for further explanation? Leave em below.


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12 Responses

  1. Burke on

    I see plenty of ties that are 2.5″ and 3″ in width, but have a really difficult time finding ties in the 2.75″ range. Any suggestions on vendors?

    • ArmanUV on

      I agree. I asked thetiebar if they plan to produce 2.75” ties and apparrantely they have no such plans at the moment.

  2. Jano on

    I personally think the 2.5″ width tie that hits the top of the belt is the best looking. I would only recommend going into the 3″ tie range if you are on the heavier side.

  3. TJ on

    I like my more casual looking ties to be slimmer, maybe a 2.5″. I like my dressier ties to be 3″. Also, what about the half windsor. It is a classic knot that works for dressier occasions and for more spread collars.

  4. Chris on

    I noticed the guy in the picture has a tie bar that is wider than his tie. Can you provide a little clarity about the width of the tie vs. tie bars?

    • Barron on

      So traditionally, the tie bar shouldn’t be as long / longer than the tie. But most tie bars are made with 3″+ ties in mind. When you pair a traditional tie bar with a modern, slimmer tie, sometimes the above happens.

      To the diehards that follow each rule by the book, it’s an abomination. To some, it doesn’t really matter. I stand by my philosophy of “know the rules, and then break them at will”.

  5. Jan Grossman on

    Should have also included examples of what not to do, such as mixing small stripes tie with small stripes shirt, and yet explaining that large stripes tie will work with a small stripes shirt if the stripe size difference is disparate enough. The examples of right and wrong would have made it clear.

    • Barron on

      Yeah, I could have. There are so many little “rules” when it comes to pairing that I didn’t really want to get into it. I tried to stick with broad generalizations in the hopes that readers can take that information and look into it further if they so desired.

  6. on

    Great post. It’s always important that your tie fit correctly.
    In your post you discussed tie length for taller dudes but didn’t mention options for shorter guys.
    For a shorter guy it’s usually difficult to achieve a good fit since most ties are 57 inches long and thus too damn long for anyone shorter than 5’6″. For many of us short guys our ties go well beyond our belt line no matter what knot we do.
    Our team at has designed ties specifically for shorter guys, so we too can achieve a perfect fit.